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Sacred & Feral

Changes afoot. Again.

Fresh snow! Before we dive into other things let’s take a moment to enjoy the first falling of snow. I love it. It is going to make life cold and miserable, but I love it all the same. There’ve been changes coming on and going on and spinning on and on. I’ve revamped the look of the site. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do. I think I’ve made it easy for you to find things. If not, please let me know. This month I’m not doing […]

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Let’s mix a Love Potion without the sexist wank!

Last year-ish Aphrodite started popping up for me everywhere. She isn’t a goddess I normally work with. At first I thought she was only bringing my attention to the patriarchal wank in the stories we have about her, but the more I listened the more I realized she was talking about more than her story. I started writing about abusive themes in romance/erotica. I wondered how I could improve my fiction writing and stay out of those traps. Outside of writing some steamy fiction, I don’t pay much attention to […]

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Dear Fluffy Bunnies of Love, Light and White Washes…

Love is action. Love defends and protects. Love does not look away. Love isn’t one of those knights in shining armor, that parade around, blinding everyone with the gleam of their polished perfection. Love gets dirty and bloody. Love goes to war. Love runs into burning buildings. Love risks everything to hide people fleeing for their lives. Love will punch Nazis. Every fucking time. There seems to be some confusion about this, a belief that love is a passive thing. That love is holding a moment of silence and being […]

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The illusion is shattered.

I’m trying to think of the right words. Nice words. I don’t have any nice words. No calming platitudes to sooth the hurt or anger. Many people are shocked today. Shocked to find America isn’t quite what they thought it was. But it is just what it has always been. The illusion of it being anything else has been broken. Today we can look at it, at ourselves, with eyes wide open. It’s unpleasant. Uncomfortable. Scary. A single election was never going to be enough to fix things. Thinking it […]

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All these sugar coated goddesses are rotting my razor sharp teeth

They are love and light. The perfect mothers, wives, lovers, and money earners. Sweet pieces of perfection for women to strive toward and men to give a nice pat on the ass. Be just like Aphrodite, not the real Aphrodite, but the one the patriarchal society has deemed best. Which is to say you could be the “perfect” woman, if you would stop being you. Aphrodite and I don’t have a working relationship, but today she showed up twice as people using her to promote their shit. Aphrodite training and […]

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